This is a practical book for everyone who attempts to improve their communication and relationships. As men and women come from different planet, they always experience communication breakdown and this surely will affect their relationship. Relationship here does not only mean relationship between husband and wife, but it is also applicable for daughters and dads, sons and moms, among friends and so forth. This book reveals how men and women are different in all areas of the world and teach the practical techniques for solving problems that arise from the differences.
There are a lot of differences of men and women that you can recognize and explore from this book. Men are described as rubber bands while women are wave. When stress occurs, men tend to go into their cave while women need to talk to feel relief. Unfortunately, the common problem in the relationship between men and women is they have tendency to treat their partner as they want to be treated. This is not true. Actually, they need to understand each other and realize that they come from different planet. So, they have to get to know their partners’ needs before offering any kind of suggestion or action.
Relationship is just like seasons; springtime, summer, autumn and winter will take their turn as time changing. It is so happen in a relationship when you could not communicate your difficult feeling during difficult time. Thus, this book suggests using ‘love letter technique’ to communicate your feeling. There is a format for the love letter technique that you can learn from this book. You also can learn on how to score points with opposite sex and find out the best way to get support from your partner. I recommend you to get and read this book coz I believe that everyone can benefit from it.
P/s: Thanks to my roommate, Kak Afzan for lending me this book.. =)
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